How to Find Love Instantly
Love can be found in many forms. Stop looking for love in all the wrong places when it is all around you. Love is in the first cup of coffee in the morning. In your puppy’s excitement to see you when you get home from work. In the comforting softness of snuggling up under your blankets at night. In the crisp, calming breeze on a beautiful fall day.
Love is in your experience of the world.
Love is the way you do your hair before work or the way you dress up nicely for yourself. The way you make sure to eat your veggies and the way you get out of bed at 4am to go to the gym. The way you brush your teeth every night and the way you make sure to get your 8 glasses of water in.
Love is in caring for yourself.
Love is the late next texts from a friend to make sure you’re okay after a bad breakup. The call from your mom when you need advice. The loving hug you receive when the tears are pouring out, flowing down your rosy cheeks. The shoulder to lean on when you can’t even stand on your own two feet.
Love is in your family and friends.
To say you wish you were in love is to discredit all the love that is in everything around you and everything you do. It is turn a blind eye to all the people in your life that truly care about you for who you are. Who would do anything for you. Who have been there to pick you up during your lowest lows.
Just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn’t make it any more “love”. In fact, doesn’t it make it that much more special when they don’t? To know that they love you and care for you without expecting anything back in return? Re-evaluate your view on what it means to be loved and cared for and appreciate all the magic, love, and light that is already in your life.
You deserve to feel that love every day and it is there for you if you choose to see it.
Love is in your experience of the world.
Love is the way you do your hair before work or the way you dress up nicely for yourself. The way you make sure to eat your veggies and the way you get out of bed at 4am to go to the gym. The way you brush your teeth every night and the way you make sure to get your 8 glasses of water in.
Love is in caring for yourself.
Love is the late next texts from a friend to make sure you’re okay after a bad breakup. The call from your mom when you need advice. The loving hug you receive when the tears are pouring out, flowing down your rosy cheeks. The shoulder to lean on when you can’t even stand on your own two feet.
Love is in your family and friends.
To say you wish you were in love is to discredit all the love that is in everything around you and everything you do. It is turn a blind eye to all the people in your life that truly care about you for who you are. Who would do anything for you. Who have been there to pick you up during your lowest lows.
Just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn’t make it any more “love”. In fact, doesn’t it make it that much more special when they don’t? To know that they love you and care for you without expecting anything back in return? Re-evaluate your view on what it means to be loved and cared for and appreciate all the magic, love, and light that is already in your life.
You deserve to feel that love every day and it is there for you if you choose to see it.
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