Let go of EVERYTHING but Yourself
Every time you make the choice to STEP AWAY from something that is no longer serving you, you are STEPPING TOWARDS who you need to be. Remember this. Sometimes we get so upset, wondering what do I need to do? Who do I need to be? To get to my goals, to feel fulfilled, to feel satisfied?
And it’s not that we need to have all these things in order to be happy, satisfied, fulfilled, and living out our true lives for ourselves. No. What we need to be doing is to be slowly eliminating all we ARE NOT.
Our true selves, our true joys, what we are truly meant to be doing with our lives will slowly surface.
It has just been hidden underneath all the “stuff”. The years and years of not being who we are truly meant to be. That is the true you. That is the you that will jump out of bed excited for life. To be so excited to work on your goals. To be invested in each moment as yet another step towards the future of your dreams. You can have this. You can have it all. You just need to believe in yourself and trust and honour yourself enough to let go. And know you’ll be okay.
You may be scared of letting certain people, situations, or things go in your life. It’s scary. We grieve the loss. We fear who we’ll be without these things. Alone. Scared. Helpless. We may feel abandoned. We may feel a void. We may feel sad. But it’s okay. Because you were alive before you had these things in your life. You were thriving. You will be okay now because you have been okay before.
Relationships. Certain foods. Drugs. Material things. Unhealthy habits you’ve picked up. Unhealthy coping mechanisms that you’ve been clinging to. Disordered thought patterns or limiting beliefs. Fixed mindsets on how things “should be” or what is “right” despite tons of evidence pointing you towards another opinion which would be WAY MORE becoming of you. Ignoring your truth.
If you can’t remember a time before these things, look back. Look way back. We were not born into this world with anything but our bare naked body and our souls. You were alive then you are alive now.
We stay fixed in what no longer serves us for fear of letting go.
We are so scared of letting go, even when we KNOW we need to.
You will be scared. That’s natural. You will be afraid. But know that’s ok.
There may be a lot you have to lose.
But there is a lot you have to gain.
Your new life is right there. It is one step away. You have the choice, today, to make this one decision that will change your life. So make that decision.
And stick with it.
Feel how amazing it feels to finally commit to healing. To letting go of the toxic and allowing yourself to breathe. For once. You’re clearing the air. You’re giving yourself space. Space to allow the fresh air in. To allow yourself to grow. Space to be yourself. It’s clear now. Clarity. Peace. Joy.
You finally let go.
It’s gone.
But you are not. And you will never be. No matter what comes. No matter what leaves. No matter what stays. No matter what goes. Your inner self is constant. It is always there for you. You are always safe. Always protected. Always loved. And nothing can take that away from you. Ever. I want you to know that.
In fact, you are more free than ever before. You have a renewed view on life. You have a clear perspective, free of what you’ve only kept in your life for fear of their absence.
Only for fear of their absence.
Let that sink in.
That is no way to live.
Love yourself enough to live true to yourself.
And it’s not that we need to have all these things in order to be happy, satisfied, fulfilled, and living out our true lives for ourselves. No. What we need to be doing is to be slowly eliminating all we ARE NOT.
Our true selves, our true joys, what we are truly meant to be doing with our lives will slowly surface.
It has just been hidden underneath all the “stuff”. The years and years of not being who we are truly meant to be. That is the true you. That is the you that will jump out of bed excited for life. To be so excited to work on your goals. To be invested in each moment as yet another step towards the future of your dreams. You can have this. You can have it all. You just need to believe in yourself and trust and honour yourself enough to let go. And know you’ll be okay.
You may be scared of letting certain people, situations, or things go in your life. It’s scary. We grieve the loss. We fear who we’ll be without these things. Alone. Scared. Helpless. We may feel abandoned. We may feel a void. We may feel sad. But it’s okay. Because you were alive before you had these things in your life. You were thriving. You will be okay now because you have been okay before.
Relationships. Certain foods. Drugs. Material things. Unhealthy habits you’ve picked up. Unhealthy coping mechanisms that you’ve been clinging to. Disordered thought patterns or limiting beliefs. Fixed mindsets on how things “should be” or what is “right” despite tons of evidence pointing you towards another opinion which would be WAY MORE becoming of you. Ignoring your truth.
If you can’t remember a time before these things, look back. Look way back. We were not born into this world with anything but our bare naked body and our souls. You were alive then you are alive now.
We stay fixed in what no longer serves us for fear of letting go.
We are so scared of letting go, even when we KNOW we need to.
You will be scared. That’s natural. You will be afraid. But know that’s ok.
There may be a lot you have to lose.
But there is a lot you have to gain.
Your new life is right there. It is one step away. You have the choice, today, to make this one decision that will change your life. So make that decision.
And stick with it.
Feel how amazing it feels to finally commit to healing. To letting go of the toxic and allowing yourself to breathe. For once. You’re clearing the air. You’re giving yourself space. Space to allow the fresh air in. To allow yourself to grow. Space to be yourself. It’s clear now. Clarity. Peace. Joy.
You finally let go.
It’s gone.
But you are not. And you will never be. No matter what comes. No matter what leaves. No matter what stays. No matter what goes. Your inner self is constant. It is always there for you. You are always safe. Always protected. Always loved. And nothing can take that away from you. Ever. I want you to know that.
In fact, you are more free than ever before. You have a renewed view on life. You have a clear perspective, free of what you’ve only kept in your life for fear of their absence.
Only for fear of their absence.
Let that sink in.
That is no way to live.
Love yourself enough to live true to yourself.
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